Monday, June 25, 2012

【巧克力 x 93】

Well, I took the first soft skill talks by UTAR in my 3rd year degree...
As usual, I make my own way in my little Myvi to PJ campus...

Dell Taiu, the speaker of the day...
A great inspirer, taught us plenty of skills which will benefit our working life in future..

I'm not really in tune for the first half of the talk...
Maybe due to Spain vs France game in the night before...
I'm just not focus enough... 
And ya, I found that I tend to look at my phone more often recently...
Not a good sign...... Have to learn to control...

Learning how to identify problems may sound easy.. 
A tedious process but a very useful one if you could master it...
By stating the problem statement, it will let you have clear picture on what you face...
  • State problems only based on FACTS, not opinions...
  • Do not include Cause and Solutions while identifying your problem... (it affects your judgment later)
  • Do not assign BLAME...! Solve problems not POINTING FINGERS... :)
By using Histogram, Pie Chart or whatever visual aids, it will make your picture even clearer...
A very good method to show the identified problems to the boss...  

  • Do not put in redundant data... Who wanna read repeating facts?
  • Illustrate your graph in a clear manner
  • Do not do complicated calculation.. Shows only SIGNIFICANT FIGURES...
  • Highlight on the important parts in the Graph itself... eg: highlight on the comparison data
  • Chart ONLY important matters
  • Dangerous if graph axis not being plotted properly
  • Use chart to explain but not repeating your facts..

Learn how to be specific on your problem, spend time only on the problem scope!
So always ask WHY... WHY... and WHY... You will get the ROOT CAUSE ... 
Never believe in anyone until you managed to identify it with ur own eyes... :)
EVIDENCE is the only thing you could believe on...

Ask yourself few questions before coming with suggestions on solutions...
  1. Is it being tested?
  2. Will it solve all or just part of the problem?
  3. Will it achieve the target for improvement?
  4. Is it practical?
  5. How fast will it work?
  6. Is it a long term or just a short term solution?
  7. Does it satisfy customer requirement?
  8. Will it improve service quality?
  9. Is the solution cost effective?
So list your steps as a Working Instruction (proper documentation) for future reference...
Don't be stingy, just share what you have... State them clearly...
God knows? You might need them in future.. :)

After one day of listening, I still don't feel enough...
Obviously, one-day-talk can't make you survive in corporate forever...
The most important part, is how you bring yourself in the corporate...
Your attitude and your character will determine how fast you climb your corporate ladder :)

Monday, June 11, 2012

【巧克力 x 92】

每次听人说,世界上没有永远的朋友,也不会有永远的敌人。
朋友有时候也许只是个代名词。
真正的朋友永远会在第一时候想到你,不管当时情况是什么样的烂臭紧急。


我不喜欢被冷落的感觉。
我想也不会有人喜欢这感觉。
特别是自己在大半大学生涯里一起混的同伴。
也许是我敏感,但我真的不喜欢被人隐瞒。

当自己一块一块地把拼图来得知那残忍的真相,很不好受。
为什么不坦白告诉我?也许你说...
“哦,那时候订机票很急,没联络上你。我现在给你再check check看还有位子嘛”
我想就算你没找到位子给我,我也不会怪你。
而不是要让我慢慢去“探听”才得知你们十来人已经为毕业旅行给完全计划好了。
而我只是计划外的一个过路人。

这学期很多班都不跟你们一样了。
我也不想每一堂课跟你们一样了。
因为我失去了那原来的归属感。
你们吃冰淇淋我也不会想要筹热闹。

当我一个一个问起你们得到的答案是“不知道”,而不是真相时...
很多的感觉在我心里都已经慢慢死去了...............

以后我不会很豪迈地在你们面前大声说话大声笑。
因为我不会是以前的我,就像你们不会是我心目中的你们一样。
我不会以其人之道,还其人之身...
但你们也不要怪我对你们的感觉生变。
因为你们给我的也不过是如此。

朋友多不代表你们可以如此对待我。
我朋友再多,也不曾对你们冷落过。
至少我不会再你们的背后做些小动作把一大群人来孤立一个人。
也很谢谢你,认识了10年的朋友跟他们做一样的事。
若你的心里真的有我,情况再紧急你都会问我一声。
也好,我也不会稀罕了。。。
至少现在我把很多情况都搞清楚了。

也许社会是如此现实,谢谢你们给我那么宝贵的一堂课。

我真的希望明年我的毕业旅行会比你们的Langkawi之旅更来得丰富...
但是冷静后,我不会再强迫自己做一些事情来跟你们比较。
毕竟你们在我的心里的份量也不会是以前的如此重要了。

我没有了我的Permanent Group也许会是个独行侠。。。
但比起在一个没有归属感的Group里当个可有可无的烂角色,我宁愿自立门户当个无名小子。

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昨天隔壁的邻居到我家里来按门铃吵架...
感觉也真的很糟,我把妈妈挡在身后跟那对夫妻口舌了一下。
Because of a small brick being moved, you wanna make things so complicated...
一个小砖头,被那uncle挑从我们搬进来到现在1年多的每样小事情。
当下还真的气炸了,但现在想起来都好笑。
一个大男人竟然学人家翻旧账,还要是两年前的旧账一个个地数。
被驳回了就挑些小小问题,哈哈哈... 

当时还真的很生气,至少我不要妈妈被人用这样的语气责骂。
晚上跟爸爸说了情况,爸爸也按了对方门铃和气地说这一件事。
“以前的事当粉笔字抹掉它” 这句话好像港剧的对白。
但昨天晚上却派上用场了。

我很讨厌别人的狗眼看人低。
总是仗着自己的英文不错而看低我们家里说华文一样。
真的很无聊的比较,也许我的EQ还不够高。
原来我们也会说不错的英文哦。 但其实也没什么好高兴的。
只是不想要每次被那种眼光来看。

爸爸把事情也处理地很理想。
也以很温和的语气表达了他的警告。
相信以后也不敢再乱按门铃找架吵了吧。
其实做邻居不是以和为贵吗?哪有人过来别人屋子按门铃找架吵呢?

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最近的报章都是很令人担忧的问题。
女生差点被掳走,女郎差些被贩卖到泰国。
这是什么样的世界?

不知道下一个受害者是谁,但这社会真的生病了。
只能祈祷自己不会是那幸运的一个?
这样人心惶惶的生活还真的很吓人。


Saturday, June 9, 2012

【巧克力 x 91】

Things get so messed up at times...
Ya, I'm still very new in planning a trip...
Not everything going in place as planned...
Well, it seems like gonna change by every time I almost fix the last puzzle...

  1. Flight ticket is a big knowledge.. It's always better to book a ticket with promo, so act FAST...
  2. Read on reviews on the hotel before getting a trip planned... It's the MOST important part anyway.

I missed the promo period in May which I have to grab the cheap tickets beforehand...
I was aware, planning on overseas trip too...
Telling the group of people that the promo is up for grab...
Fine, then they booked ticket to a trip without me anyway...

I asked everyone of them for the Langkawi trip I planned...
I already know their answer before even they say anything...
Just that I wanna see how they respond to me...
Fine, still wanna hide stuff from me... It's kinda cold to know all these...
But at least now I know... Our friendship just cost a trip.. >.<


Anyhow, I still learn from the process...
Just that I don't feel good for my friends who have been showing support to join it...
Thanks alot to Mary and the group.. And sorry for not getting things sorted..
Gonna work harder tomorrow and hopefully to have a pleasant trip with them in Sept :)

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

【巧克力 x 90】

Sometimes life get hard... But it's not as hard as we thought...
We always tend to magnified what is being placed in front of us..
Especially on problems...

After some time, you might just look back and say....
"Hey, it's not too bad anyway..."

Well that's what we always did...


So cheers and go on with a strong heart :)

Sunday, June 3, 2012

【巧克力 x 89】

New semester started a week ago...
I was once intended to take up to 7 subjects...
Yes, I know this is insane... But somehow it still struck my mind...

Another year to go, I will be graduating from college...
I never want to have my college life to be dull...
But it seems I learn something out of it still...
Society activities will all come to a stop by now...
I am tired of all of these work and wanna concentrate in my academic by now...

My CGPA showed I'm actually not doing well anymore...
Not the usual of me, at least not being satisfied with such result...
3.0 seems getting further if I still don't put in enough effort by now...
B+ for all remaining subjects should be more than enough...
But somehow, I still don't feel much confident in myself yet...

I wasted too much time on unnecessary stuff...
Not to say 100% useless, I get to know some nice person out there...
But get to know, doesn't mean you gonna get close with them...

I was recently being left out of a trip group...
Well, not gonna blame on it since they planned since a year ago...
I was invited, but not acting fast enough to grab a flight ticket...
Not gonna blame anyone on this anyway...
But now they are going somewhere next year without me again...
This time not even an invitation...

It's not a good feeling, of course it's not...
Especially when you think they are the closest group you have with your best buddies in it..
And SURPRISINGLY, no one cares about your existence...
Well, telling me about it only after getting a ticket isn't gonna cure...
I will just have to learn to accept it anyway...

I guess this is part of LIFE...
No one can ever go on with the same group or people...
When you thought they are always there for you, they might not be...
Funny huh, but this is a realistic world...
FINE, and now I feel like I'm moaning abit too much...

BEST BUDDY or not... I don't really wanna look into it...
Until today he replied me saying about my backpack trip...
"I listen 1st” is what he replied me after I told him about it...
DAMN! FINE...I gonna go without you then...
No group? No friends to go along?!

DONE...I'm going ALL ALONE...
Sounds like a GOOD PLAN?
In fact, it don't...
I really CARES... Especially seeing friends all posting their travel photos over FB...
I'm not envy, just not being happy that I'm not be able to share my joy...

I should think that I'm still fortunate to have such opportunity to be what I am now...
Enjoying what I have, knowing people I wanna know...
There are plenty of unfortunate out there envy with what I have...
So I should learn how to be grateful...
Ya, it sounds more like self comfort... But I have to think that way...

Thanks for all you guys did...
Really thank you...